This Thursday, the theme for Magpie Girl's 8 Things is Learned/Learning/Learn. I admit that this is a difficult topic, mainly because I have to reflect a lot about what's been going on in my life - and there's been a lot! But for the most part, I'll stay as positive as I can.
...How to be an effective Social Work Intern Supervisor. In fact, my time as a supervisor is soon coming to an end, come May 14th. I'm sure I have more to learn, but I'd like to think I've done a pretty damn good job so far.
...That I am not a dog or a cat person, but I really love both. There's something about having an animal in the house. For all the stinky farts from the dogs and all the spazzing out from the kitty, it's hard to imagine life without these darlings. Unfortunately, the doggie on the right has already gone to Doggy Heaven.
...That I can ride my bike safely around the city, not because of the city but because I ride safely. I've had my share of small scares, including a time when my tire got stuck in a groove and I flew over my handlebars and when some dude clipped me. But for the most part, it's nice to be able to get somewhere fast enough on my own.
...How to say "No." Today provided the best example for this! The school the non-profit I work for is based in was having a staffing issue today. One of the other outside organizations who is in the school does random jobs depending on who needs help. It's almost like they're called on for subbing, secretarial duties, and general child-watching. Today, they were playing secretary. Though we're in the midst of organizing a huge talent show-like event, the Assistant Principal asked that I also take part in secretarial duties since other orgs were helping out. I told him that I couldn't because of our event, but he assumed that I would do it anyway. Luckily, other things started happening that provided a nice distraction. But, I felt like I had to avoid the area until the other stuff started happening.
...How to speak up for myself and put myself first. This is mainly concerning personal relationships. I'm such a mother hen sometimes, that I often put myself last. But then, when I do try to take care of things for myself, I've been accused of not taking care of the household. I'm told that I should go and enjoy being social and active, but then I'm blamed for being too busy outside to focus on what (or who) is at home. I'm still trying to figure all this stuff out.
...To embrace my body. I love all the things my body can do, like dance and get around the city on my own. I'm still working on getting to a happier place with the way I look, but at least I'm aware of my own strengths and challenges.
...How to save more money. Goodness...saving money is tough! Especially when the majority of my income is coming from the government. But I'm slowly trying to do better about the spending.
...How to play more Beatles songs on the bass and piano. Well, I need to practice more in general. But, it would be awesome to learn something new in addition to practicing the old stuff. After playing Beatles Rock Band, I'm re-inspired to learn some of my favorite songs and their actual notes.